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Petition addressed to: Waipu cemetery board
We are asking the cemetery trust to support and permit the headstone designed by Dean Carter’s sons to be placed as their father’s permanent memorial.
Dean’s sons personally designed the headstone as a tribute to their father and to reflect the relationship, memories and love they shared with him. We believe their involvement in creating their father’s memorial should be respected and given genuine consideration.
The purpose of this petition is to demonstrate that Dean’s family members and loved ones support the headstone designed by his sons and wish for that memorial to be used to honour Dean at his final resting place.
We respectfully ask the cemetery trust to consider the wishes of Dean’s sons and the wider family and to support the proposed headstone as Dean Carter’s lasting memorial.
Reason
Dean Carter’s headstone will be a permanent memorial that his children, grandchildren, siblings, extended family and friends will visit and remember him by for generations.
The headstone was designed by Dean’s sons specifically to honour their father. It represents their personal memories of him and the relationship they shared with him.
This petition is important because it gives Dean’s family and loved ones an opportunity to formally demonstrate that the proposed memorial is supported by the people who knew and loved him.
We understand that decisions concerning a deceased person’s final resting place can be sensitive and deeply personal. Our intention is not to create further conflict. We are asking that the wishes of Dean’s sons, together with the views of the wider family and loved ones supporting this petition, be given meaningful consideration when deciding what memorial should permanently mark Dean’s grave.
We believe Dean’s final memorial should be one that meaningfully reflects his life and the relationship he had with his family.
Dean’s sons are his children, and they personally designed their father’s memorial as a lasting tribute to him. The family supports the design they created. We respectfully ask the Board to give meaningful consideration to the wishes of Dean’s children and the wider family when determining what permanent memorial is placed at his grave.
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Petition details
Petition started:
23 Sep 2026
Collection ends:
03/22/2027
Region:
Northland Region
Topic:
Family
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Dean would be absolutely horrified of this behaviour as his sons have always been so important to him. He would be so chuffed they have designed his headstone that has meaning to them. There should not need to be a petition of any kind as his sons should have that honour as he’s their dad, a blood relationship should be first & foremost, not someone who hasn’t been there from the start.
As the boys Aunty, I’m appalled this is even happening to them. They’ve been through enough.
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Deans sons should have the final say in this decision. They are direct descendants and blood relatives of Dean, and the Legacy that he leaves behind. They deserve to have a proper memorial and tribute to their father and a place where any grandchildren, family and future generations can visit and pay their respects to him.
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